“Once upon a time, there was a very unhappy man who had tasted all the beauties in the world but could not be happy. After a while, life became unbearable for him. She was always happy next to him, now she shares her sorrows with him and adds happiness to her happiness. The unhappy man is now very happy, so his perspective on life has changed. He would take out his fairy girl, talk to her and be happy He returned to his unhappy days again. He immediately thought of the fairy girl and went to his house to go to her again. When he reached home, he opened the door of the closet, but he encountered the dead body of the fairy girl, and wrote a last note to her before she died.
DO NOT COMPARE
Comparing our lives to other people’s doesn’t change it.
DON’T BE DECEIVED BY FAIRY TALES
to see the magic we dream of in the love you have for our partner and not to expect things that happen in fairy tales.
CREATE A COMMON INTEREST
common interests support positive communication and fun between partners.
DON’T EXPECT IT TO READ YOUR MIND
When you are in a sad situation, do not expect your partner to spontaneously understand your distress. The other party cannot read your mind.
NO NEED TO RUSH
Relationships are not a race where first place is rewarded.
DEVELOP YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR
a positive aspect of this sense of humor
underlines the need for Because negative jokes are just
increases blood pressure.
Relationships develop not by the amount of time spent together, but by the quality!
THE FUTURE IS IMPORTANT
The relationship is built towards the future, not the past.
MUST BE OPEN
“Do not keep anything inside! Because when you share your reality, you will also share your life, and the bond that will be formed between you and your partner in this process will help you overcome everything!”
BE FRIENDS WITH HIM
Long-term relationships owe their development and survival to a solid foundation of friendship!
FIND HAPPINESS IN YOURSELF FIRST
If you are not happy with who you really are,
relationship will not change this situation! It’s a healthy relationship
It will also make it harder for you to maintain!
Do you remember the first day we met, you were so unhappy I would put my head on your shoulder and listen to you I would do anything to make you happy until the morning Your joys were my joys and your unhappiness would be my unhappiness When I was waiting for you, now your visits have decreased, my soul, fed with happiness, started to suffer slowly But I never reflected it to you Now that dark closet was my world, it lights up when you are next to me It gets dark again when you are gone. and you reconnect me to life and I will make you happy again… Remember, those who make you happy live as long as you are happy…”
REDUCE THE IMPORTANCE OF MONEY
Fortune is unconnected on the length and degree of satisfaction of a relationship!
CARE ABOUT IT
Showing that you value him despite the differences; a healthy relationship
forms the basis.
In the long run, it will create an atmosphere of anxiety, comparison, and ultimately strife.
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
Whatever the situation you are in; Believe in yourself and accept the fact that you can stand alone first.
DON’T LISTEN TO THE OPINIONS OF THOSE AROUND YOU
“First, no one knows what you really need.
can’t judge what you hear and value better than you.
Second, people depend on their own relationships about the relationships of others.
is more negative than
DON’T succumb to FEAR
When you encounter an unfavorable situation
You need to stop questioning your relationship.
DO NOT BRING YOUR JOBS HOME
When your workday is over, your work should remain entirely in the office.
YOU MUST FORGET YOUR PAIN!
Keeping the pain inside will keep the wound fresh.
STOP LOOKING FOR THE PERFECT!
The concept of the “perfect relationship” never existed. Because; Instead of persistently waiting to meet someone who agrees with you on everything or can make you happy at any moment; You should try to cultivate the relationship that satisfies you the most.
Sometimes silence tells more than words… Here it is…
I went to the grocery store the other day. Our grocer was chatting with an old uncle. Subject: “YTL”… Uncle was talking about being fine. I went into the subject, ‘How come we were poor before Christmas, are we rich now?’ I saw that my uncle is talking about other things.. He says:
-You are window dressing children… You want what you see, you get what you see. You don’t know how to manage. After that, you cry because we can’t afford it. Happiness is having your stomach full… The rest will come anyway. Do you know what it’s like to wait to die? You guys don’t know how to be contented and happy with small things. Tell me, how many shoes do you have? Ask your parents, they will tell you about the planes and blackouts that passed over them in the Cyprus war…
I got what I was going to get, and more than enough!
Every person has a story. I learned something on the go. To be full, even to breathe sometimes… To be able to sleep safely and get out of bed safely. Little things. Little, little happiness… Maybe happiness is something that can be learned… A little positive should be able to look…
Happiness is so easy sometimes.. to those who know how to be happy, or rather to those who want to be happy.. Maybe they should make it a philosophy of life, learn to be happy.. I don’t remember who, a famous thinker said: “Only fools are happy.. “Who does it hurt to be stupid once in a while…
Happiness is like perfume, if you don’t infect yourself, you can’t give it to others.. May this summer bring you happiness and infect everyone…
Lift your head, look at the sky..
A bright, happy future, with a smiling face… Just like pebbles, colorful but all in their own color…
We wish you to maintain excellent relations and happiness…
Stay with love…