Marriage is man’s second birth. Marriage is the third birth in relationship therapy. A marriage with well-protected borders allows us to be us while protecting ourselves.
by protecting us
with respect to you
I want to be us with you.
This is how a healthy happy marriage is. When marriage occurs, ‘costs’ appear and ‘rewards’ decrease.
couples focus more on the negative than the positive. negative focus leads to increased negative behaviors; Couples may face problems such as criticism , defensiveness , condescension , building walls , pressure , aggression , emotional disconnection , withdrawal , escaping , fighting and being left alone .
Important problems in marriage and relationships can be mentioned with examples such as not being able to speak masculine and feminine languages, not knowing what will make one happy, power struggles, kinship relations, faulty ways of solving problems, inadequacy and inappropriateness in sexual life and similar examples.
Nowadays, the expectations of the couples from each other, the desire for happiness and the minimum standards have increased, and the need for professional help has increased.
Couples apply to couples therapy because they do not get along, they argue and fight, their relationship is not the same as before, and they have communicative problems.
Marriage therapy aims to teach couples to understand themselves and their spouse. therefore learning to communicate is essential. Learning to argue and fight in a healthy way is in marital therapy.
A healthy relationship , a happy marriage does not mean that there are no problems , no arguments . A healthy relationship depends on intimacy , lust and commitment in a balanced way .
In some cases, helping to end the relationship in a healthy way is among the duties of marriage therapy.
You will be a good wife to the extent that you can understand yourself and your spouse, have a healthy discussion, solve problems, and accept differences. As long as couples are open to change and development with good intentions, there is no problem that cannot be solved.