Over-giving, protective and undisciplined attitude:In this attitude of love and
indiscipline is at two extremes. Little is expected of the child and discipline
no matter how much the child grows up, the family gives it to him in the first years.
always inclined to give and protect. grown in this style
The child has difficulty taking responsibility. May have a hard time knowing your limits
and self-confidence problems. As a result of overprotection
tolerance and pampering, and this time the child
begins to rule. These children are spoiled, selfish, do not give rights to others
and they tire their surroundings with endless requests.
Disinterested and overly undisciplined attitude:In this attitude, the child does not love enough.
and is neglected and forced into independence in ages when it is not ready. This
attitude can also be called a rejecting attitude. Children see themselves as valuable
lacks emotion. Children with this attitude
they have a hard time explaining.
Over-giving, protective and over-disciplined, controlled attitude:love is overwhelming
and presented in a protective manner. But like a baby
There is much to be expected from him. These expectations with love
When presented together, it is easily adopted by children and becomes self-contained.
digested. The child with this attitude puts excessive control over himself and
may have difficulty understanding others. Child abiding by the rules, careful
it could be. But he can become shy, unable to make his own decisions.
Unstable and unstable attitude:Sometimes in the face of the child’s behavior
Saying “Yes” and sometimes “No” is the child’s right and wrong.
causes it to fail. Child indecisive and inconsistent behavior
He doesn’t know how to act in front of him. Because the behavior in this situation is
In another case, it was unacceptable behavior. boy this
In this case, there will be internal conflicts and unrest. this attitude
He will begin to show inconsistent and unbalanced behavior towards them.
Inconsistency between parents’ attitudes:In this attitude, a child
It is in question that the mother has a separate attitude and the father has a different attitude. To the child
in the behavior of parents in order to maintain the limits set.
it has to be consistent.
The child’s self-concept is what the elders who are important to him show him.
negative attitudes from parents because it is a reflection of attitudes,
It can result in the child deeming himself worthless. desired behaviors
not rewarded and supported when the child is approved and
has increasing difficulty in distinguishing from his/her disapproved behaviors.
In addition to all these attitudes, there is a healthy personality development of the child.
There are more attitudes:
Reliable, Tolerant – Democratic Family Attitude:
It is essential to give unconditional love to the child. Democratic parents
Respect as a human being. Every child has his own pleasure traits.
accepts, does not compare sister, brother, sister. The child’s abilities
It allows him to reveal himself at the best level, to realize himself. Thick
It brings principles instead of rules, explains the reason for these principles. your child
aims to develop self-discipline. Entrepreneurial, responsible raising children
Boundaries are taught to the child and they must be free and have a say within these limits.
is targeted. While making decisions on various issues, the child’s opinion is also taken.
There is harmony between spouses in the democratic parental attitude. common attitude
is displayed. Children who grow up in such an environment are independent, self-confident,
They grow up as responsible individuals with high self-esteem.
Every parent’s attitude towards their children is different, knowingly or unknowingly.
can happen. Some children are loved more, some are pressured.
and some are seen as unloved, unwanted children.
All these attitudes are different aspects of the child’s personality and social development.
gives rise to forms.
You as a parent; collaborative, enjoys working,
for the development of creative, conscientious individuals who love other people,
and in a balanced environment, where responsibilities are shared and tolerance prevails.
sensitive, balanced and healthy children with a democratic attitude
you can grow.