Man’s first night problems and fears

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  • Lack or absence of desire and desire
  • Little or no arousal
  • Inability to provide sufficient rigidity
  • Inability to stay rigid enough
  • premature ejaculation
  • painful intercourse

“A police officer committed suicide the morning of his wedding night. According to the information obtained, the police officer of 10 years got married in the wedding hall last night. The couple went home after the wedding. He committed suicide by shooting himself in the head with a gun at around 05.00 in the morning.”16.05.2006 Sabah Newspaper

Another news that was published in the following days when the event started to light up.

“The allegations that the police officer committed suicide by being unable to have sexual intercourse due to excessive excitement on the night of his marriage led to discussions about sexual problems” NTV-MSNBC 24.05.2006

What if I don’t get tough enough?

The fear of failure triggered by excitement and the shaking of the self-confidence of the man triggered by it; it causes inability to harden and other problems to grow like an avalanche.

Now pay attention to these examples.

A man chasing a dog is nearly impossible to harden. We can reproduce this example, knocking on the door during masturbation or sex, the exciting last minutes of the football match… The underlying mechanism that causes this is the hormonal system and other mechanisms that are active in the body at the time of excitement, preventing erection.

If you men think you’re not hard enough, calm down and let your partner take control. You have to accept that if you continue to act like your partner’s sex teacher, you’re going to be ridiculous. Your self-confidence is one of the important factors that determine the quality of your hardness. Do not pretend that you have self-confidence, if not, accept it and try to win.

Do not blame your ignorance on your genitals and your spouse, do not put the sin on them. Accept it and don’t hesitate to seek professional support when needed.

I have premature ejaculation, will my wife get cold from me?

Premature ejaculation can be defined as the inability to voluntarily ejaculate continuously and repetitively during sexual intercourse and not having control.

What men need to know is that your spouse will not feel offended by this situation, but you should get professional support.

How was I?

This question is usually asked by men, men want the power to be in their hands. He wants to give pleasure to his wife and expects to be appreciated. Some men believe that by making their partner happy sexually, they will bind them to themselves. The power of love and mutual harmony is underestimated.

If you look at the event as a war, if you look at the size of your weapon of war, if you look at the spoils of war as a bloody sheet, you will condemn yourself to an unhappy sexual life.

Is my penis long enough?

The size of the penis is like a rodent ingrained in the memory of men. Misleading messages are removed because the penis seen in pornographic visual documents is perceived as normal. Physicians agree that the 8 cm to 17.5 cm range of the stretched penis is normal, they will use nomograms (solution graph) when evaluating you. Men who think they have a small penis benefit more from psychosexual counselling than from a surgeon.

Will my wife have a lot of pain?

Pain can make intercourse unpleasant and unbearable. With your gentle and subtle approach during sexual intercourse, you will prevent your partner’s pain from you.

Contrary to popular belief, men also experience pain during sexual intercourse. Even in sudden movements and uncontrolled pressure, the penis may break. Although it is seen less frequently in women, studies give the incidence of painful intercourse in men as 5%.

Sexuality demands tact and sympathy

Doctors expect spouses to be understanding and kind to each other. Mutual trust begins with kindness, happy sexuality awaits grace…

I was pretending to have strong sexual power before, what should I do on the first night?

You just need to discuss the situation with your partner. You will also put your wife at ease. Instead of being the ruler of an imaginary empire, you should choose to be a trusted partner in your spouse’s world.

What you need to do to remember your first night well

Keep in mind that it’s important to remember this first reunion well.

  • Plan your first night ahead of time, don’t be afraid to talk about the first night.
  • As a society, it is our custom to leave our work to the last moment. Sexual health education is given by the best man in an hour before sexual intercourse. Know that this one-hour sex education from the pre-nuptial best man is not enough and correct. If you have reservations, make an appointment with your doctor about these issues before the first night before you get bored.
  • Take care of cleanliness. For example; It is often the first reunion after a wedding. All the rust and sweat of that ceremony will be on you, take care of cleanliness and take a shower that will relax you.
  • You will not be able to fit desires in a small wedding room on that special first night. On your first night, no one should be at home but you. This will relax you a lot.
  • Wait for when you feel psychologically ready. The first night does not necessarily have to be the night of the wedding.
  • The couple must be ready for sexual intercourse. Being ready for sexual intercourse does not mean being ready for intercourse. You should not be hasty in sexual contact.
  • It is natural and beneficial to have a long duration of foreplay before sexual intercourse.
  • It is normal for women to be nervous in their first sexual experience, and the man should show understanding. It is possible for a man to comfort his wife with his words of love and his loving gaze.
  • It is more normal for men to be nervous during their first sexual experience. The result of this tension will appear as unearned or unsustained rigidity in men. When the man has erectile dysfunction, it is recommended that the woman touch her partner more. The woman is asked to take control of the foreplay. Women should not forget that men who state that they are sexually strong can lie about this issue. Of course, do not approach your spouse with prejudice, but believe what you see, not what you hear. Continue to support your spouse, do not forget that he will need support, do not be fooled by your spouse saying I will take care of it.
  • Remember that you will realize it by doing different things. Sex is like a two-wheel drive car, don’t think you’ll crash if you let go of control. It is natural and necessary that sometimes the man and sometimes the woman take control.
  • You should spend your first night thinking that you will belong to each other for a lifetime.
  • Do not forget that your sexual happiness and problems are only your concern, do not involve your relatives.
  • Do not hesitate to seek professional support.

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