Friendship – Allowing to be Found

Even if something is missing in life. As long as we don’t miss our loved ones.

“La Eddie”

Explaining friendship is one of the hardest things in the world. It’s not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you haven’t learned much. “Muhammad Ali”

When we find ourselves judging another person, we may perhaps ask… What side of me do I feel or see that person reflects in myself that I don’t want to admit?

We have the answer to the question. Perhaps the main challenge is to find a way to silence the mind so that we can hear. When the mind calms down and can remain silent enough, we will see that the answers we need, creativity find us more easily.

There is a twilight zone in all of us. Although we know a lot about ourselves; Our talents, weaknesses, whims, desires, drives, and impulses—a large part of ourselves still remain in the shadow of our consciousness. This means that we will always be partially hidden to ourselves. Other people, especially those who love us, can see our twilight zone better than we do. How we are seen and understood by others is different from the way we view and understand ourselves. Thus, we may never know exactly what our existence means in the lives of our friends. This is actually a blessing; a grace that not only encourages us to humility, but also calls us to a deep sense of trust in those who love us. These twilight zones of our hearts are exactly where true friendships are born.

Life is a hide and seek, sometimes we hide from ourselves, sometimes from our loved ones. It is the “meeting moments” where two souls touch each other that makes a person find him. Friendship is allowing to be found. It is to seek to find. The one who hides wants to be found, not lost…

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Deep Wounds of the Soul

Kemal Sayar

Our mission; Instead of striving to find love, it should be to seek and find within ourselves all the obstacles that we have developed against it.

Rumi

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