first sexual intercourse

The first sexual intercourse, which is also called the first night, the wedding night, the wedding night, is very important for both partners. In our society sexualityand hymenThe first sexual intercourse can turn into a nightmare for both partners due to hearsay and incomplete information about it.

The first sexual intercourse may be negative if the man acts too hastily and uses force, and the woman contracts herself excessively as a result of her fears that her hymen will bleed excessively and it will hurt a lot.

If both partners receive sexual counseling on the subject before the first sexual intercourse, instead of hearing, incomplete, exaggerated or wrong information, all the negativities that may be experienced will be eliminated.

THE IMPORTANCE OF THE FIRST EXPERIENCE FOR WOMEN

The first sexual intercourse experience is very important for a woman. in women Loss of sexual desire, sexual aversion disorders, inability to orgasmand vaginismusThe traumatic first sexual intercourse fear or experience is on the basis of sexual dysfunctions that we encounter frequently.

Considering the first sexual experience from the woman’s point of view, the perception of the hymen as an anatomical barrier indicates that this structure is excessive. bleedingand ache It is an expected situation to be concerned about what it may cause. However, under unprepared and unsuitable conditions, the first sexual experience with a male partner who ignores the sensitivity of the woman on this issue will cause some bad psychological effects in the woman.

Is the first sexual intercourse always painful?

In cases where the woman feels completely ready, in cases where vaginal secretions increase and slipperiness with a long foreplay, and the man avoids calm, sensitive and compelling movements, the woman does not feel pain or may feel very little pain during the disruption of the hymen. The fact that both partners focus on sexual pleasure during intercourse will further alleviate this pain.

Does the hymen always bleed during the first sexual intercourse?

The hymen may not always bleed during the first sexual intercourse. The structure of the hymen in every woman different The amount of bleeding from the hymen during the first sexual intercourse will also be different. In women with a flexible hymen, there may be no bleeding or very little bleeding. In those with a thick and high-sided hymen, intercourse may not be possible at all, or if intercourse is difficult, bleeding may be excessive. The readiness and willingness of both partners to have intercourse, as well as the structural differences of the hymen, will affect the amount of bleeding in the first sexual intercourse.

Things to consider in the first sexual experience:

Before the first sexual experience they are both ready for the relationshipand each other confidence should give a clear message. In the first relationship, which can be a mirror of later relationships, especially the male partner should care about the sensitivity of the woman and understanding should be. Considering that it may take longer time for women to be ready for sexual intercourse by their nature, it is more important for women to relax and relax. patientshould be.

If the woman is forced to have sexual intercourse before she is ready for intercourse, the rupture of the hymen may be irregular and in this case more bleeding and paintakes place.

The more ready and willing the woman is for intercourse before the first sexual intercourse, the more secretion and wetness will occur in the vaginal area. Thus, since the vaginal lubrication will be more, the pain will be less during sexual intercourse. Foreplay is very important in the first sexual intercourse.During foreplay, both partners should focus on getting pleasure from touching each other.

In order to increase the wetness in the vaginal area lubricating gels or baby oil. Thus, possible excessive damage to the hymen can be prevented.

In the first sexual experience, with the formation of vaginal lubrication after a long foreplay, in order for the woman to feel that she is in control, she is on the top and the man is on the bottom. positionsshould be preferred.

Partners who do not have enough information about sexuality or even do not talk about it until they get married can experience great disappointment in their first sexual experience.

Before the first sexual intercourse, which will form the basis of their later relationships, every woman has a simple gynecological examination We recommend that you get information about the hymen and the structure of the hymen. In addition, instead of hearsay, wrong and incomplete information, both patners sexual counselingTaking them will make them feel more comfortable and safe in the first sexual intercourse.

Op Dr Ebru Zülfikaroğlu

Sex Therapist

Gynecology and Obstetrics Specialist

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