Your first night and ‘No erection problem’
Erectile dysfunction is a very sensitive issue for men. Even if it is the doctor in front of him, he may be in an effort to get over this embarrassing situation. First of all, accept this situation and do not hesitate to seek professional support when necessary.
Doctors are more attentive and relevant in this case. While the history of the disease can be obtained easily from the men who apply to the outpatient clinic with the complaint of erectile dysfunction, the history of the men who come to the polyclinic for a long time with the complaint of not having sexual intercourse is very difficult, and the doctor shows extra effort and patience. Doctors have been trained in the art of seeing the situation they are trying to hide. The disease hides, the patient hides…
Contrary to popular belief, men can gain their hardening in swaddling and continue until the grave. That’s healthy, that’s normal. Erectile dysfunction in men is also called “erectile dysfunction, impotence, impotence”. “…a man’s persistent or recurrent inability to achieve and/or maintain sufficient penile erection for sexual performance” is defined as “a man’s failure to achieve and/or maintain sufficient penile erection for sexual intercourse for at least 6 months”. The following risk factors will trigger your erectile dysfunction.
- Scigarette use
- drug use
- excessive alcohol use
- Nutritional disorders
- Lack of exercise, sedentary life
It’s normal to be nervous on your first night of stress triggered by it. The result of tension; It may occur as unacquired or unsustained stiffness in men. The fear of failure triggered by excitement and the shaking of the self-confidence of the man triggered by it; it causes inability to harden and other problems to grow like an avalanche. Now pay attention to these examples. A man chasing a dog is nearly impossible to harden. We can replicate this example, knocking on the door during masturbation or sex, the exciting last minutes of a football match… The underlying mechanism that causes this is that the hormonal system and other mechanisms that are active in the body at the time of excitement prevent erection.
If a man with erectile dysfunction does not receive professional support, he may waste his days as a prison guard for his wife. Or he does what he should, and without any hesitation, he consults a doctor to get professional support without getting bored.
Men with erectile dysfunction who apply to the doctor have a 90% chance of being treated, and if they do not apply, they are likely to be exposed to the conditions listed below.
- anxiety, stress
- loss of self-confidence
- Negative impact on social relationships
If you think you didn’t get hard enough on your first night, remember this.
Do not forget that your problems in your sexual happiness only concern you and your spouse, do not share this problem you experienced on the first night with anyone other than professional people.
If you are worried about hitting the manhood or keeping control, give up this idea and feel free to leave the control to your partner. If you men think you’re not hard enough, calm down and let your partner take control. Accept that you will be ridiculed if you continue to act like your partner’s sex teacher.
It’s normal for men to be nervous during their first sexual experience. The result of this tension will appear as unearned or unsustained rigidity in men. In this case, it is recommended that the woman touch her partner more. The woman is asked to take control of the foreplay. Women should not forget that men who state that they are sexually strong can lie about this issue. Of course, do not approach your spouse with prejudice, but believe what you see, not what you hear. Continue to support your spouse, do not forget that he will need support, do not be fooled by your spouse saying I will take care of it.
Your self-confidence is one of the important factors that determine the quality of your hardness. Don’t pretend you have self-confidence, if you don’t, accept it, try to win. Do not blame your ignorance on your genitals and your spouse, do not put the sin on them.
Extend the duration of foreplay before sexual intercourse.
Before seeking professional support, wait for the time when the stress situation is gone, try to merge again.